Whitney Way Thorerecently returned from a Paris vacation where she spent time with her French boyfriend, but the couple was not initially in sync about the visit.

In PEOPLE’s exclusiveMy Big Fat Fabulous Lifeclip, Thore, 37, has trouble getting on “the same page” with her beau when it comes to making their long-distance relationship work.

“Listen, I just saw an article where they were saying they’re going to open France up to American tourists,” Thore tells her boyfriend during a call. “Maybe about a month and Americans can come. I assume if Americans can come, that means that you could also come here.”

She tries to cut the tension after hearing some hesitancy in his voice. “You don’t sound excited,” Thore says through a laugh. “It’s like your life just flashed before your eyes, like, ‘Oh no, I didn’t think about this day actually coming.'”

“I didn’t expect this phone call to end with him having booked flights or anything, but I’m also just not sure that we’re necessarily on the same page, in terms of meeting,” she muses in a video confessional. “And if he’s not certain if he wants to meet me and be with me, I would be crushed.”

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Thore revealed in July that she has a new man in her life, whom she met while doing online French tutoring.

The body positivity advocate opened up to PEOPLE last month about her new relationship, and said she was concerned about how fans would react since he has chosen to keep his identity secret. “The truth is I’mnot really looking forward to itbecause I already know people are going to be like, ‘Oh, he doesn’t like you,’ or ‘He’s embarrassed to be seen with you’ or whatever,” she said.

They decided to keep his identity private due tothe harassment Thore’s ex-fiancé Chase Severino facedafter their split. Thoreannounced their splitin May 2020, after Severino cheated on her and fathered a child with another woman while they were engaged.

See Whitney Way Thore’s new romance blossom inMy Big Fat Fabulous Life, which airs Tuesday at 9p.m. on TLC.

source: people.com