Porsha Williams.Photo: Porsha Williams/instagram

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Porsha Williamshas a mini-me on her hands, and she’s loving every minute of it.

While promoting season 3 ofReal Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, Williams, 41, told PEOPLE that daughterPilar Jhena(PJ), who just celebrated her fourth birthday, “runs the house.”

“She loves her brothers and sisters, which is so beautiful. I mean, she was an only child, to boom. She’s got two sisters and three brothers overnight. And they’re so patient and loving with her,” says Williams.

“She’s the youngest running around the house, so they have to practice patience with her. She runs the house still, but it’s great.”

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“Sometimes I have to just pause when we’re walking upstairs, and she’s bossing me. I’m like, ‘Really? Wow, you just going to raise hell all over again. Dang,’ " she laughs. “We don’t even really call her PJ, a lot of times. We just call her little P, or PP, because it’s like you’re just little Porsha.”

Williams is proud to be raising a daughter who “really shows her personality.”

“She’s strong-minded. She’s silly. I love that about her. She’s so silly. She likes to prank you and tease you,” the proud mom says.

Williams notes she has a “good balance” when it comes to co-parenting PJ with ex Dennis McKinney.

“He doesn’t live too far. So it’s really different,” theReal Housewives of Atlantaalum explains. “When you first go through some rough patches in life, it’s like, ‘Oh, Lord.’ You start thinking about the worst for your child, the worst situation they’re going to end up in, when in actuality, she has so much more where we are now.”

“I want one too,” she admits. “So we’ll keep praying and we’ll see what God’s going to do.”

Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip is now streaming on Peacock, with new episodes of season 3 dropping every Thursday.

source: people.com