Lala Kent (L); Randall Emmett.Photo: Ethan Miller/Getty; Jon Kopaloff/FilmMagic
Lala Kentcontinues to share why there is no love lost between her andRandall Emmett.
On Wednesday’s episode of herGive Them Lalapodcast, the 31-year-oldVanderpump Rulesstar opened up about how she has been coping with the breakup.
“I feel like I’m not suffering,” she told guestLarsa Pippen. “Yes, there was a lot of betrayal. What he was doing behind the scenes was not the same as the life he was portraying when we were around each other. So, it’s hard for me to come from a place of, like, mourning a loss when there was no loss because it wasn’t ever real.”
Adding to that, Pippen — who was married to retired NBA player Scottie Pippen — said: “I get what you’re saying. You’re looking at it like that and I promise you when we talk in, like, two years, you’re going to be looking at it differently.”
“I hope so,” Kent replied. “Just the fact that you were married for 21 years is just absolutely incredible. Something was working but like you say, people grow. And you can grow together or you can grow apart.”
“It’s been kind of repeated behavior that I have found out about,” Kent toldAndy CohenonWatch What Happens Livein January. “And it’s not just one person — it’s many. I believe it started after I got sober, and it’s just … I don’t know how I didn’t see it.”
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When Emmett addressed the breakup for the first time, he claimedboth parties were at faultthroughout the relationship.
“I’ve made mistakes, she’s made mistakes, but I’m never going to bring that to light because that’s just not right,” he recently said Golnesa “GG” Gharachedaghi’sGenuinely GGpodcast. “For me, I just don’t feel it’s appropriate.”
Added Emmett, “I can’t tell her what to do. She’s a strong woman, and I just hope that in time that kind of all mellows out.”
Lala Kent and Randall Emmett.Amy Sussman/Getty
Kent has been moving on from Emmett.
During anAmazon Liveappearance, Kent said she wasgoing on a datewith a man who resembled “Superman.” Though the pairhad “fun” togetherin the group setting, the reality star has since revealed that the mystery manfailed to pass her background check.
“The last date I went on, it was a group date because remember y’all, that’s the only thing I’m comfortable with right now. And he was fine, but the PI [private investigator] check didn’t come back so great,” she said during anotherAmazon Liveappearance. “So I had to kick him to the curb.”
“Haven’t been on a date since. I’ve been talking to people, but no dates,” she added. “I go on dates with my mom and Ocean. Such a vibe.”
Kent also said on this week’s episode of her podcast that she was “talking to this new guy” recently. But it didn’t pan out as she had hoped.
“I’m not looking for anything serious at all,” she said. “Like, at this stage in my life — and I was transparent with him before this happened like, during one of our conversations — ‘I have nothing to offer you. I don’t. I’m just looking for good company.'”
source: people.com
